If we are negative: - It can be that because of all sorts of reasons, we start negatively talking to ourselves. We mix with people (our decision really) who are negative. They support and have sympathy with our negative conclusions! So, there isn't anything to hold us up! Positive people avoid us because we bring them down, always moaning and groaning! That's not to say we do not have genuine grievances BUT, moaning and growing isn't going to help. Energy and positive people